top of page

Philosophy and Life Design: Ethical Wayfinding and How to Build a Good Life Compass to Orient Yourself...Even If You Don't Know Exactly What You Want Out of Life

H ave  you ever thought to yourself that you’re not where you think you should be in life? Perhaps you feel like you don’t matter, or that you’re some small, unimportant cog in some corporate or institutional machine?

 

You think to yourself, “I want something different, something more!” And then you consider, “What  could I do with my life to not only earn a living, but to create a genuinely good life?”

 

And then….not that many real options come to mind….

 

You know you’re not where you want to be…but you also don’t know exactly where you want to go. 

​

​

Thinking Man

I’ve been there. In the past, I often stressed over my dissatisfaction with a life in academia, and I found myself in that exact spot. I was feeling unsatisfied with life but helpless to move forward because I didn’t know where I wanted to go.

 

As I learned then and as you probably already know, figuring out exactly where you want to go in life can be really hard. It requires a lot of information about many things that you may not be able to gather. It requires, so to speak, a map with the lay of the land that gives you a route to your pinpointed destination.

 

If you’re in this place, I hear you, and I’m here to tell you, there’s a better way forward than trying to figure out a life map to your ideal life destination in crystal clear detail in your head.

 

You don’t need a precise map of life with only one route to a single X-marks-the-spot ideal destination. Instead, all you need is a compass and a direction.

​

And you can build a Compass for Your Good Life using philosophy and concepts and tools from Life Design. A Good Life Compass that can always tell you if you’re in going in the right direction. 

Limiting/Oppressive Belief: To move forward in life, I need to know my destination, which is often hard or even impossible to know.  

Philosophical Reframing: To move forward in life, I only need to know whether I’m going in the right direction, which I can always know.

​

In last week’s post, to help you build your way to a better life, I shared with you some Ethical Designer Mindsets inspired by Burnett and Evans’s Life Design approach.

 

In this post, I share with you the concept of Wayfinding through Life and tools we can use to build a Good Life Compass. This is a tool that you can always use to know whether you’re on or off course in life —even when you don’t know exactly where you want to go.

 

As Burnett and Evans nicely put it in Designing Your Life, “Wayfinding is the ancient art of figuring out where you are going when you don’t actually know your destination.”

 

Your Good Life Compass is a tool that you can always use to know whether you’re on or off course with respect to your considered beliefs about the good life. 

​

You can build a Good life Compass by figuring out your Workview, your Lifeview, and integrating them into what I call a Life’s Work View. This is a Harmonic, Synergistic Whole that represents your considered views about what you want out of life and the way you spend your time and energy in it. 

Workview

 

Your Workview is your “work manifesto” that articulates your essential view of what work is and what work means for you. It involves asking “What is work for? Why do I work? What makes work good? 

 

In building a Workview, you consciously examine your relationship to work by developing your own philosophy of work that articulates what it’s for and why you do it. Be sure to consider ‘Work’ in a broad sense, to mean not just what you do to make money, but as an exploration of what profession, vocation, being productive, and contributing through your efforts mean to you.

 

Workviews vary widely in what they focus on and the role they give to: 

 

  • Cooperation with Others

  • Service to Others

  • Contribution to the World

  • Money

  • Standard of Living

  • Risk/Security

  • Growth 

  • Learning 

  • Specialization/Well-roundedness

  • Skills

  • Talent

 

It’s up to you what role to give to these things in your Workview. The key thing is that you consciously and thoughtfully articulate to yourself what you really think is important about work. 

Iron Working Tools
Working on Computer
Jeweller Working
Electrician at Work

You can figure out your Workview by writing down a Workview Reflection. Don’t do it in your head. Take action. Type it Out. Or better, write it on paper. It shouldn’t take longer than 30 minutes. Try to aim for around 250 words, but don’t be afraid to go for longer if you get inspired.

 

In your Workview Reflection, contemplate some or all of these questions:

​

- What’s work for?

- What does work mean to me?

- How does work make me feel, physically, emotionally, and spiritually?

- What type of work makes me feel good? Bad?

- What defines good or worthwhile work?

- What does money have to do with work?

- What do experience, growth, and fulfillment have to do with work?

- Why work at all?

- How does work relate to the individual, others, society?

 

When reflecting on the role you give service to others or social issues in your Workview, it’s up to you how much emphasis to put on this. But keep in mind that a wide variety of philosophical traditions and a good deal of empirical evidence strongly suggest that making an explicit connection between your work and contributing to something greater than yourself that is socially meaningful has many positive benefits. These include a greater probability of finding satisfaction in work, more fulfillment in your work life, and a greater ability to adapt to the stress and obstacles that work inevitably brings. 

 

I’m not telling you what greater cause to link your work life to, but I am telling you that your work life will likely be better if you link it to some greater cause or other. Consider what you want to contribute to that is bigger than yourself in your work. We grow so that we might give. So, what do you want to give through your work? Is it contributing to making things better for your community in some way? Is it sharing knowledge that has empowered you with others? Is it some social justice cause that is dear to your heart? 

 

Whatever it is, make sure it speaks to you.

Studying on a Computer
Volunteers
Helping Hands
Soup Kitchen

Lifeview

 

We all have a Lifeview in some form or another, even if we’ve never clearly articulated it out loud or on paper. It’s your ideas about what gives life meaning, what makes life valuable or worth living. You may not have ever articulated before, but it’s yours, and you must reflect on it and make it explicit to yourself in order to start designing a good life with philosophical purpose.

 

Lifeviews vary widely in what they focus on and the role they give to:

 

  • Family

  • Community

  • The World

  • Money

  • Fame

  • Personal Accomplishment

  • Learning

  • Hobbies

  • Specialization

  • Growth

  • Failure

  • Risk/Safety

  • Specialization/Well-roundedness

  • Experience

  • Fulfillment

 

 Like your Workview, it’s up to you what role to give these things in your Lifeview. The key thing is that you consciously articulate to yourself what you really think is important in life.

Smiling Skater
Family Time
Winning Match
Friends Camping in Woods

To figure out your Lifeview, you can write down a Lifeview reflection, just as you did with your Workview. Again, this should take no more than 30 minutes and be around 250 words (or longer). The key thing is for you to articulate what highest principles, core values, and perspectives provide the basis for your understanding of life. Your Lifeview in this way should be “your definition of what have been called ‘matters of ultimate concern’." It’s your philosophy of what matters most to you in life.  

 

In your Lifeview Reflection, contemplate some or all of these questions

​

- Why are we here?

- What is the meaning or purpose of life?

- What is the relationship between the individual and others?

- Where do family, country, and the rest of the world fit in?

- What is good, and what is evil?

- Is there a higher power, God, or something transcendent, and if so, what impact does this have on your life?

- What is the role of joy, sorrow, injustice, love, peace, and strife in life?

​

It’s up to you what role you give to things beyond yourself in your Lifeview, but again, wide variety of philosophical traditions and science suggest that humans are most able to find meaning, fulfillment, and satisfaction in life when they dedicate a significant portion of their efforts and energy to something greater than themselves. 

 

Consider then, what you want to contribute to that is bigger than yourself in this life. We live at our best when we live for something greater than ourselves. So, what are you going to live for besides yourself? Is it your family? Is it your community? Is it the world as a whole? It doesn’t have to be just one, but whatever you decide, make sure that it makes you come alive.

 

Don’t just do this in your head.  Make sure to take action. Type it Out. Or better, write it down on your journal or paper. 

Music = Life
Meditating on the Beach
Stones of Meaning
Justice

Synergizing Harmonization into a Life’s Work View and Your Good Life Compass

 

Armed with an articulated Lifeview and Workview, you are now in a position to build a Good Life Compass that can always guide you as you design and build your own vision of the good life.

 

Begin by reading over your Workview and Lifeview and then writing some thoughts on the following questions:

​

- Where do your views on work and life complement one another?

- Where do they clash?

- Does one drive the other?

- If so, how?

 

It is crucial that you take the time to write down some thoughts on this, for it’s in this integrative reflection where you’re most likely to discover some crucial epiphanies about yourself and what you truly want from life. You may find yourself revising and refining some parts of your Workview and Lifeview as you do this. Awesome. Lean into that. Really refine and nuance your views as you undertake this critical, philosophical self-reflection. 

Sat on the Rocks

Burnett and Evans focus on “coherence” as the aim of integration. Coherence is certainly important and valuable. Living a coherent life brings you inner harmony. But coherence is not the only valuable thing. And unfortunately, all too often mere coherence can lead to complacency.

 

My philosophical Good Life Design approach and tools that empower you to go beyond simple coherence in order to achieve ethical harmonization that fully integrates your Workview and Lifeview, keeping in mind the points we’ve made about finding fulfillment in helping others.

 

Burnett and Evans also offer a Life Compass in the form of some thoughts on how your Workview and Lifeview fit together, leading to integrated Workview and Lifeview. But I know we can do better, so I provide a single, integrated Life’s Work View that harmonizes your philosophies of life and work and that can serve as a Good Life Compass. This single tool can help you figure out, at any given moment, whether you are on or off course with respect to your views of what a meaningful existence, a truly good life, is. 

​

To put together this Life’s Work View, write down a reflection that integrates them into a single, harmonized view of what meaningful activities you want to get out of your work and your life. Do this, keeping in mind the thoughts you've already written down on how your Lifeview and Workview complement/clash with/drive one another. It shouldn’t take more than 30 minutes, and it can be around 250 words (or longer if you’re feeling inspired).

​

In doing this, you should aim to resolve clashes or tensions there may be between your Workview and Lifeview. It’s up to you how much. But to the extent that you can, I recommend that you try to harmonize these two views so that one drives the other or, even better, so that they mutually reinforce each other.  

​

I’m not saying that your life needs to be all about work. Far from it. You get to decide how they connect. But I am saying that, to the extent that what you look for and get out of life helps you get more out of work, you’re setting yourself up for personal success in how you work. And, to the extent that what you look for and get out of life helps you get more out of work, you are setting yourself up for professional success in how you live.

​

For your Life’s Work View to genuinely serve as a Good Life Compass, you must also aim to harmonize ethically your own views with and with the benefit and flourishing of others. For most humans, a life is not actually good if it's "all about me." To be truly good, a life really has to be "about we."

​

A life is not actually good if it's "all about me." To be good, a life really has to be "about we."

Let’s now make this concrete by going through some examples of how to ethically harmonize some Workviews and Lifeviews.

​

Suppose your Lifeview that holds you should leave the planet a better place for the next generation. But your Workview holds that you can work for a giant corporation that pollutes the planet making enough to make a comfortable living for you and your family. There is clearly an incoherence in these two views that needs to get resolved. But we can resolve this in different ways. 

​

You could simply revise your Lifeview, giving up your belief that you should leave the planet better for the next generation, holding on to your belief that making a comfortable living for you and your family is what matters (even if it comes at the cost of contributing to global pollution). Nothing about coherence prevents you from doing this.

​

But there are better, more ethical ways of resolving this conflict and harmonizing your Workview and Lifeview not only with each other but with the world. You could hold onto your Life belief that you should leave the planet better off for the next generation while revising your Work belief that it’s okay to make a comfortable living for you in this way. There’s no one way to do this, but you could seek employment at a different, more environmentally conscious company. Or you could try to change your company’s environmental policies from within, looking to significantly lower the negative environmental impact your company produces as you make the kind of living you’re after.

​

Another example of conflict to harmonize is that between a Lifeview that holds that art is the only thing truly worth pursuing and a Workview that holds you need to make enough money to support yourself.

​

Here, again, you have a tension that you could resolve in different ways. You could revise your Workview and give up your belief that you need to support yourself and go all-in into your art come what may, even if it leads to starvation. But this way of resolving the clash does not point the way to a good life. It deprives you of the enjoyment of many things life has to offer. If you can’t support yourself through your work, then you also deprive yourself of future opportunities to create art. And you deprive the world of all the art you could have shared had you been able to support yourself for years or decades longer.

​

A better way of harmonizing these views would be to soften your Workview. You can still hold that art is what is most worth pursuing but also that it is important and worthwhile to dedicate yourself to other work that allows you to support yourself and contribute to the world.

​

A final example comes from my own life. I have a Lifeview that holds you should contribute to making people’s lives and the world as a whole significantly better. But I used to have a Workview that held that it’s important to dedicate the vast majority of your efforts to deep scholarly work that only a few specialized academics are interested in. Here was a clear conflict that I came to realize would lead me (and indeed was already leading me) to feeling miserable and dissatisfied with my work and my life. 

​

I could have resolved this clash by revising my Lifeview to give up my belief that it’s important to contribute to making people’s lives significantly better. I could have held on to my Workview and taken solace in the fact that future generations of scholars could benefit from my work, even if people right now do not. 

​

But this did not seem enough for me. This seemed to separate me from the world too much. I found myself having too many different interests and skills that I wanted to explore and develop that did not have to do with my scholarly work. And I decided that I was committed to the Life belief that it is important to make others’ lives significantly better. I wanted to do more, to give more. So I decided instead to revise my Workview and hold that I should dedicate a significant portion of my efforts and energy to deep scholarly work but another part to sharing the insight and wisdom I’ve gained by doing philosophy with a wider audience. This decision to integrate my Life’s Workview in this way is a crucial part of why I decided to launch the Promise of Philosophy.

​

With these examples in hand, write down your own Life’s Work View that harmonizes your work and life beliefs. Build your Good Life Compass. Take action and create something that will help you navigate anything life has to offer. 

art intro
Variety of Coins
Business Growth
Chart

Conclusion

​

In this post, I have shared with you the tools for how to build a Good Life Compass. Now that you have it, you are armed with a powerful tool that can help orient you regardless of where you may happen to be. Now that you have it, you can use it. So next time you find yourself changing your life or work circumstances, pursuing a new interest, or wondering what you're doing at your job. Stop. Check your Good Life Compass. And orient yourself. Use it to find a way forward toward a better life.

​

You should remember that we change as we go through life and that what is of ultimate concern to us may change with us.  This means that you don’t build your Good Life Compass once and set it for life. You need to recalibrate it to where you are in life. Make sure it’s working to guide you as it should. I like to recalibrate mine at least every six months. Try different things and find what works for you. Then do it. You’ll be glad you did. For you’ll be able to face everything life throws your way with greater philosophical perspective and purpose.

​

To help you build and recalibrate your Good Life Compass wherever you might happen to be, I have put together a Comprehensive Guide for Building/Recalibrating your Good Life Compass. You can sign up to get this and other philosophical resources sent to you every week.

 

When you sign up, I will also include  Core Philosophical Mindsets that you can fuel your progress even when the going gets rough and you feel like you're totally off-track. 

​

And, because we all know how hard it can be to keep the right perspective day in and day out in this world of achieving and displaying, I'll throw in some powerful Inner Game Techniques to Help You Keep these Core Mindsets In Daily Consciousness and Shaping Your Life for the Better! 

 

Don’t let the Philosophical Lessons Remain Mere Words. Take Action. Use them to Shape your Life and the World for the Better. 

bottom of page